Food cravings are one of the most difficult things to deal with, whether it is pre or post surgery. Cravings are often the result of learned habits and emotional eating that have developed over a long period of time, and can be triggered by lots of things including stress, boredom and not eating regular meals.
Unfortunately, the foods that we often crave are generally unhealthy and provide little satiety, such as slider foods. Sliders are foods that are easy to eat as they are high in fat and sugar, and include things like chocolate, cake, milkshakes and crisps. The sometimes uncomfortable feelings of tightness that follows when a patient is full doesn’t occur as often with softer foods and sliders. Sliders generally don’t help you feel full and can cause symptoms of dumping if you’ve had a sleeve, bypass or mini bypass. As I always say, do not rely on dumping syndrome to manage your cravings as not every patient will dump, and you’ll be extremely upset if you thought dumping would stop you reaching out for the bag of crisps or bar of chocolate!
Here are some great ways to reduce cravings.
Remove the concept of a ‘diet.’ One of the most counter-productive things that anyone can do when changing their eating habits is to restrict and remove the foods that they enjoy the most, as it can lead to an unhealthy binge / restrict cycle. Remember that you aren’t on a diet, you’re changing the way you eat for the rest of your life. You can still have what you like to eat, just in moderation.
Don’t skip meals. When you skip a meal you are more likely to feel extreme levels of hunger later on, which will intensify your cravings. Aim to have regular meals and don’t spend the day grazing as this will lead to weight regain after WLS.
Plan and prepare your meals in advance. Make your planning time easier by creating a meal plan in advance for the coming week, working out the ingredients you are going to need and then ordering the food to be delivered. This is particularly useful in the first few months post-surgery.
Eat mindfully. How we think about and consume our meals can have an enormous impact on our weight and relationship with food. Take your time, cut your food into small pieces and chew slowly, putting cutlery down in between bites. Eat at a set time and listen to your body. Remember that it takes the body about 20 minutes to realise when it is full, so by slowing down it is more likely that your body will tell you when it is full. When you’re comfortably full, stop.
Keep high-protein snacks nearby, and take them with you when you leave the house. This will ensure that you are able to eat when you feel hungry and will reduce the cravings you feel.
Ask yourself some questions.
Are you hungry or is your body simply following a habit that you have created? Have you been stressed and are reaching for comfort food? Is the food that you’re craving a healthy choice? Are there any healthy choices you could make instead? (this is where prepping and planning your snacks really does help) Consider whether you are thirsty instead of hungry before you reach out for food.
Distract yourself. Indulge yourself in things that you enjoy to take your mind off the foods that you are craving. Go for a walk, read a book, keep your hands busy with word searches, crosswords, jigsaws, spend time with friends and family, watch your favourite films or listen to music.
Change your environment.
This isn’t always easy, but try and avoid going to places that have easy access to the foods that you are craving, such as places with snack bars and vending machines. If you’re working from home, don’t work from the kitchen.
What if this still doesn’t work?
Eat what you are craving, just in a very small amount! Instead of eating a box of chocolates, buy a small bar. Have a small glass of wine instead of three large glasses. Having things in smaller packets, glasses, containers, plates can help manage portions.
Are you struggling with cravings? At The Dietologist I can assess and take the time to get a better understanding of your health, relationship with food, weight struggles, lifestyle demands and medical conditions, and work with you to help guide and support you post surgery.
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I would recommend you sign up for the 12 month Super Value Support as it includes the Pre-op Diet E-book as a bonus and the Pre-op diet video module. Always helpful to be prepared and you can join the private community and ask other women about their experiencies.
The membership covers the foundations of working with your surgery and overcoming emotional eating to navigate your weight loss. The membership contains a module on regain and if you follow the guidance and attend Q&A sessions I am confident you will lose weight. Ideally one to one support would support you better.
Absolutely YES! This membership was created for you and for anyone seeking aftercare support on a budget.
Absolutely YES! Over 50% of women regain the weight they lose and more due to lack of aftercare. Surgery does not fix your relationship with food nor does it automotically change your habits. The bariatrics and beyond membership will support you with this.
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Your support may not be what you expected, hence why I have created the membership so you can access the video modules 24hrs a day, 7 days a week for as long as you are a member!
50% of the self paced video modules and worksheets focus on your relationship with food, mindset and habits, so you will gain insight into your triggers to eating and how to manage them. Attending monthly Q & A sessions with Van will provide further support and accountability to help fix your relationship with food.
In the last 10 months I have been speaking with Van; my experience with Van has been completely outstanding from beginning to end. In just one telephone call Van can pull all your emotions, challenges and thoughts together and guides me back onto my right path. She understands; listens and advises me to give me the reassurance I need to keep fighting for my dreams. Van has helped me realise I can be who I desire; can and want to be and I cannot thank her enough for that.
Natasha.
I am so thankful for finding Van. She has been a great support in helping me regain confidence with my gastric band. More importantly, she has helped me improve my relationship with food with her mind set coaching and positive nature. It’s a refreshing change to speak to a dietitian who understands your journey. Van puts her heart and soul into every consultation.
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Julie B
Van has helped me improve my eating habits and kickstarted my weight loss after many years of trying. Van looks at things holistically, assessing sleep patterns, stress levels and your relationship with food. Since losing weight, I find that I have more energy and the walks are no longer tiring like they used to be. Over the past few months, with Van’s support, I have made positive changes with monitoring my weight and no longer weigh myself on a daily basis. She has made me realise, health improvement is more important than a number on the scales. I really feel great!
Rachel H
Had several sessions with Van she's very professional and very caring. She treats you not only as a patient but as a friend too. Would highly recommend Van to family and friends, shes a big loss at Heartlands Hospital.
Lisa Price
Van is fantastic, very knowledgeable and understanding with a vast amount of experience. Personally I'm a bariatric patient and have trusted Van for many years with adjusting my gastric band, which she has done successfully and helped me lose weight in a controlled and healthy manner.
Faye Rodgers
Van has helped me immensely, she has given me confidence to deal with my treatment after surgery, she has helped me to understand what I'm doing as far as what Is advisable to eat and quantities. She is a very warm, kind lady who makes you feel at ease,I am so pleased that I decided to consult with her and would advise anyone who has had this surgery to do the same.
Debbie Kirby
Just had my first consultation with Van, pre surgery. She is amazing! I feel totally empowered to do this, and cannot wait to start my journey. She tells it as it is and has a wicked sense of humour, something I feel I’m going to need in the coming months. Van is not a stuffy health professional, she listens as well as talks and takes a real interest in what you have to say. Thanks Van, for making me feel validated and helping me to start my day with a smile on my face.
Julie Young
Van is a fantastic dietitian, when I first met Van I thought how can she possibly understand my issues when she looks so amazing and petite and could never have possibly had a weight or eating problem. Well I was so very wrong, Van has studied & researched her chosen career, Van offers the tools needed to go forward & has a great understanding of weight issues, much deeper than most. Van makes a difference because she takes time to listen and gives you complete honesty which I have always valued as that is so important to anyone who has weight issues and needs help & support to gain/regain control of there lives. Van loves to see you gain your confidence & self belief which a lot of us lack for so long. Van will be with you when you have your highs & lows as she is totally committed to what she does, I totally recommend Van, she inspires you to want to be the best version of yourself.
Sue RIchardson
Van is so knowledgeable and she listens. She knows exactly what advice to give each step of the way and ensures you remain calm and arms you with the right information. No question is too silly and she responds quickly to messages. She is easy to get along with and celebrates your success with you. I feel like I have found a new friend. I truly could not have done this without her.
Sarah Quinn
I’ve had several sessions with Van and she really knows her stuff. She is so personable and really understands exactly what you need. Thank you Van.
Lisa Guscott
Van is a fantastic dietician and so motivational and helpful.
Carly Lancaster
Van is a committed and an extremely passionate dietitian. She is committed to providing the highest standards of care for her patients. She keeps up to date with her learning and provides most current evidence based treatments. I would thoroughly recommend Van.
Poonam Pradhan
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Where do I start with this five star review. I met Van in July 2017. I was in a right mess with my diet, no clue where to start or how to begin. Van listened to all my challenges and gave me just the best advice. She asked me what my goals were for losing weight and I explained how all I longed for was a baby and from a young age all I was told was try and lose weight , well it never happened as I could just never shift the weight... with every failed month I just piled on more and more weight. I don’t even know how to explain after meeting Van for the first time changed my mind set on the way I looked at life and of course food. She set weekly/monthly goals nothing was too much trouble she was there at every bad week or even better the good weeks.
She really has changed my life!! More so 14 months after our first appointment I lost a staggering 7stone and fell pregnant with my beautiful little daughter who’s three months old today!
To say Van changed my life in more ways than one is a total understatement.
I can honestly say she is truly an amazing woman inside and out and any one who chooses to work with her will not be disappointed I promise!!
Vicky Carter
I feel like In having my weight loss surgery, I’d bought this top of the range tool with no instruction manual. Having 1-1 sessions and being on Van's course has provided me with an instruction manual in how to use my tool that I can refer back to when stuck.
Vans approach to understanding the whys to weight struggle is, I believe, crucial. Weight gain for me hasn’t been simply move more and eat less. There are many underlying issues that Van is helping me discover about myself.
I sat with my husband a year ago and said I wish there was a dietician who understands the psychological side to weight loss. I can’t believe my luck that she actually exists in Van and I found her! Can never thank her enough for the realisations I’ve had since meeting her x
Gemma
Without Van I wouldn’t have been able to reach my goals as quick as I have! She has helped me face my emotional eating habits and guided me through adapting a brand new mindset towards food. This has truly changed my life and I have never felt healthier. I have reached my goal weight within 10 months, and I have never felt so confident in myself. The surgery was only a tool but without the correct habits and mindset it can only go so far. Van is brilliant with listening to my concerns and addressing them truthfully and with integrity. She is an amazing coach!
Amz
Fantastic, useful, practical advice. Makes it real. Understands the challenge of everyday living and working and makes useful suggestions based on your lifestyle.
Katie x
I'm a little late writing this review but I want to say that Van is wonderful! She is full of very practical and actionable information. Very professional, uplifting, friendly, and easy to talk to. A couple times I started veering off course and she helped set me straight - I'm forever grateful for that! Highly recommended. Thank you for your help.
Melinda x
I had private bariatric surgery to remove a gastric band revising to a gastric bypass. The poor eating habits I had developed from the band were inhibiting my weight loss. Working with Van 1-2-1, educated me to work with the bypass viewing it as a tool, not the cure.
Van built me up emotionally and intellectually, highlighting the stressors with work and life that were preventing my weight loss. Having Van to talk through this with me was such a lift, it generated great awareness.
On reflection, I wish I found Van pre-operative so I could have been fully educated and manage my expectations with secondary weight loss surgery. Her knowledge is inspiring, when the scales stand still, I accept it and that is because of Van.
If you are thinking of have surgery contact Van, if you have surgery contact Van. Van is the key in making bariatric surgery a healthy lifelong success.
Starting weight: 100kg BMI 34.5
Goal weight: 69kg BMI 24.1 Smashed it at 68kg BMI 23.5 (Feb 2021)
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